I’ve been attending the youth club for over a decade and have taken part in almost a thousand sessions during that time. I’ve grown up with it being a big part of my life, and now, at 25, I’ve reached the end of my journey there.

“Before the youth club, there wasn’t really anything locally for people like me who have additional needs. I wanted somewhere to spend time with people my own age and to work on my social skills.”

When I first heard about the youth club and everything it offered – the sports pitches, gym, café – I decided to give it a try.

At the beginning, I felt a bit nervous but mostly excited to meet new people, make friends, and try new things. I wasn’t sure if I’d like it, but I’ve always felt relaxed and welcomed – the opportunities to connect with others made it feel like the right place for me.

“There were very few places outside of school where I could practise my social skills, and I love talking to and meeting new people. The youth club gave me the space to do just that.”

I started out attending inclusive sessions and football, and over the years I also joined other clubs and used the gym. I’ve faced lots of challenges, but one of the biggest was going away from home for the first time on a residential. That was really hard for me, but the staff and other young people supported me through it.

There were also emotional challenges – like when I lost a family member. That was a really tough time. I found it hard to express how I was feeling, but staff were always there for me. They gave me time and space to talk things through and regularly checked in on me.

“Sometimes it felt easier to talk to them than to my family.”

At the youth club I got to play football, take part in karaoke, use the gym, and even try baking (which I ended up really enjoying). I now cook at home with my sibling every week, choosing recipes from different countries – the other week we made paella.

It was always a great way to unwind after school – a space where I could feel more grown up, independent, and safe without constant supervision. The consistency of the place – familiar staff, routines, and the freedom to choose what to do – made it feel like a second home.

It became something I looked forward to at the end of the week – hanging out with friends and grabbing some food on the way home.

“The youth club gave me so many opportunities I wouldn’t have had otherwise.”

I got to visit other clubs in different towns, take part in inter-club competitions, and represent my club even if we didn’t always win. It meant a lot to be part of something like that.

“One of my highlights was a residential trip I joined a few years ago. I was nervous – it was my first time away from home – and some of the activities pushed me out of my comfort zone. But I knew who I was going with, which helped, and the support I got there made it a memory I’ll always hold onto.”

Through one of the clubs, I joined a week focused on building independence and life skills – we did everything from cooking for events to behind-the-scenes tours of local organisations. I loved these experiences because they gave me a chance to meet new people, work as a team, and develop confidence.

I’ve always enjoyed welcoming others – being on reception, greeting people, and helping them settle in. Hospitality is something I really enjoy. It’s also been rewarding to support younger members, whether through refereeing football games or helping out in sessions. I always try to treat everyone with respect and fairness.

The staff have played such an important role throughout my time. I always felt like I could go to them, whether I needed help with equipment or just someone to talk to. Having people outside of your family to talk to can make a big difference.

Over the years, I’ve taken part in projects that developed my leadership skills – one in particular taught me how to recognise when to step back and let staff manage situations, and how to be aware of the group to help keep everyone safe.

I’ve made many friendships across all kinds of activities, and I’ve grown so much in confidence. There aren’t many places like this, and it’s been a space to develop socially and personally.

“I’ve gained independence, freedom, and belief in myself.”

Now I’m moving on to a new chapter with another organisation, but I’m really going to miss this place. I hope others coming through the door get as much from it as I did – and that they make the most of it like I tried to.